For those who may not know me well, I sometimes take a walk during lunch.
It is good for my physical health and provides a break from the computer screen that occupies much of my day. During my lunch break Oct. 20, I wavered about going out. I had gotten a later start, and after checking my weather app and looking south, I could see the potential for a storm. The National Weather Service had predicted the possibility of light showers. With that in mind, I had a decision to make.
I fretted that I might not get the 40- to 50-minute walk I prefer, but I applauded myself for deciding to go ahead. About 15 minutes into the walk, the sprinkles turned into a steady light rain. That changed my route; instead of continuing north, I took a right turn and headed south. Getting back to the office before the rain worsened became my sole focus.
As I headed east toward Third Street, I passed an older woman carrying groceries. She seemed no more pleased with the rain than I was. However, as I reached the end of the block, I noticed two grocery bags near the intersection. The woman had two bags with her but had left the other two at the side of the road. I assumed she would return for them.
By then, the rain had picked up in intensity.
After taking a few more steps, I decided to turn back and pick up the two grocery bags. I walked back up the street, where she met me.
She could not speak English, and I could not speak Spanish, but she gestured toward a nearby house. I helped her carry the grocery bags and put them on a covered porch. She smiled, and I understood she was saying thank you. I smiled back, and she surprised me by softly saying, “Love you.” I said, “Thanks and take care of yourself.”
Knowing she was out of the rain, I returned to my walk. As I walked down the street, I looked back and waved. She waved back with a smile.
The rain had picked up a little more, but for some reason, it did not feel as wet as it had before. If the rain hadn’t changed my route, I would never have encountered this woman. I may never see her again, but I benefited more from helping her than she will ever know.
Many communities face challenges, but the best way to make a difference is to start with one deed at a time and recapture the essence of kindness. I am no expert, but sometimes any of us can do the unexpected and make a difference.
Dave Bergmeier can be reached at 620-227-1822 or [email protected].
